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Saturday, October 31, 2009

Fancy Dress Party '09

While thinking of how exactly I should blog this year's fancy dress, I got this idea of rifling through Halloween parties of past years. Reminiscing, Thess and I were laughing our heads off - it was indeed a treat - so, we'd thought we'd share them Halloween 04-08. (hit the flickr badge for more and look for the halloween sets)

This year the little girl came in with a simple Gryffindor robe (she decided to be a bit low-key this time) and pretended to be Hermione. Last year, all of the kids just stayed inside the disco hall but this year, there were lots of games held outside too. Upon arriving, she found her best friends and had a blast. Here are some of the snaps.

Parent Sharing


BSM recently cooked up a new program - Parent Sharing. Purpose is to provide parents a peek into their kids works so far this year. So, we got to spend about an hour inside Viv's classroom. Viv gave us a tour of her room, her schoolwork and her varied projects. The room was packed with excited parents and kids. With all the materials stuffed all around the class, it was indeed a very busy room. The short of it is, she's doing great in all of her subjects. She's always eager and inspired and Teacher Smales' feedback during a subsequent PTC was very very good. Feedback on the Parent Sharing thing was positive so I think this'll be a regular thing now. Keep it up Viv!



Friday, October 16, 2009

Digger on Ice!

Digger, the class puppy, gets to go home every week with one of the class' kids and they get to keep record of it on Digger's journal. We take Digger along our usual weekend ritual of eating out, groceries, shopping and as it happens, a birthday celebration!

Thanks to Ate Rachel for inviting Vivian to her birthday weekend celebration... on ice. The celebrant spent her afternoon with her close friends, and Vivian in tow, at the local ice rink. The big-little-girl excitedly put on her ice skates and hurriedly went on to the rink. After one round on the rink, she comes back with a face like she's about to hold a spider in her hands. After some time though, she bravely went back on the ice and after a few more rounds, had a respectable stance and a not-so-smooth jerky forward movement. That first round was so

far behind her and she was definitely having fun. Her last round she did all by her lonesome. She bravely pushes away from the wall, for the very first time. She was doing great...until she slips and falls. Sat there for a few seconds, looking at us from afar thinking of how to deal. She realizes the solution and starts crawling to the nearest wall...just as the official clangs on the gate, signaling the end of the skating. Zamboni comes out and does its job.

Saturday, October 10, 2009

Amazon & Aramex

Tried for the first time ordering online while here in Oman. Back in Manila, I had Johnny Air who gave me my US Address for free and just charged me for shipping at low enough rates... low rates compared to here anyways. We took the plunge and subscribed to Aramex's Shop N Ship for a one-time fee of 17USD (discounted 50%) and got us an address in both US and UK. Ordered several books and a networking tool kit (for work) from Amazon UK and US and tried out the service.

The shipping time wasn't so bad. The fees were not as low I'd wanted them to be...the shipping of one book cost more than the book itself (boo!) The test wasn't so good though since the books came from different Amazon merchants so they arrived at my UK mailbox in separate shipments. So, naturally, Aramex shipped them across to Muscat in separate shipments also - I asked but they couldn't hold off on shipping to wait for all of them to come in at one time. Any case, the wife and I got our books safe and sound. The tool kit arrived at the office intact. I tried out the Amazon Prime option (note: the US and UK subscriptions are separate agreements ipso facto separate subscriptions costs) and I'd forgotten the one-month free trial was up and got automatically billed the yearly subscription. One can still cancel and get the refund but better to just unsubscribe right after the trial run...lessens the hassle. Might keep mine though... wonder how much it'll cost for the lens... :D

Monday, October 5, 2009

Oh Ondoy!

That Saturday, arrived at the office and I chanced upon a news feed... storm in Manila, streets flooded a bit more extreme than usual. I sms'd my mom and just asked how they were, in general, and just put in at the end that I heard another storm was up and about. My mom answers that yes there was and that our street was already flooded and water had already gotten inside the house - in her usual frantic-toned text (can't explain it, just that I know when my mom exudes panic on something as emotionless as an sms). Got a little bit more worried but then my mom does exaggerate sometimes so I casually replied asking had she meant it had gotten inside and up the garage already. My mom says no - it's inside the house already.

Panic! Next few hours since, I just kept trying and trying to call our house in Marikina City. No joy! My only thought was to try and give instructions on what they could do - ie turn off the mains/breakers, instruct them all to just stay at the second floor and such - sms was barely working. I tried calling my sister who was also stranded in Makati City by the floods. We both were trying to contact Marikina but voice calls were just impossible. Eventually, they turned off the electricity and my parents and two helpers settled up on the second floor for the night. My parents saw neighbors having to leave their homes. I kept praying that the rains stop soon otherwise, they'd have to start considering leaving our home as well.

The flood got up shoulder height inside our house before the rain stopped that Sunday morning and the water started receding. Our refrigerator toppled over including the washing machine. and TV. Everything inside and outside the house was covered in mud...thick thick mud. Hearing and seeing all the photos and updates that had circulated that time - we were just blessed and thankful that that was the extent of it for us. It could've been much much worse. Our families in other cities - Makati, Cavite, Pasig were also hit somehow but nothing that couldn't be fixed given time.

Growing up in Marikina, floods were plainly normal...and regular. I remember as a kid I'd seen black-top (asphalt) roads of Champagnat St. Marikina Heights lifted and thrown to the sides by floods and rains, as if they were carpet rugs. The house I grew up in had parquet flooring. I dreaded everytime the floods would come - not because I was afraid of the flood per se - but because I knew the pain-in-the-a** job I had after the flood had long gone, rugby back into place the flooring. After a few years, my parents decided we'd had enough of getting flooded and so we raised our flooring by about a foot and that flooring level held for a long time - storm after storm. After a few years, I had even raised the floor level further a few more feet when the new house had been built. So, much like every MarikeƱo, I had learned how to deal with the threat of floods from childhood. How to plan for in case it was a little more than expected, how to lessen the damage, and how to just simply 'be' around floods - how to drive around floods, how to wade around floods, things like that. Ondoy was humbling. I wanted to spare my parents the strain and aggravation we all felt when I was a kid during rainy season but all the planning and preparation was for naught. When nature wants to be heard, she gets heard.

To all our friends and families, thank you to all who helped out including those who tried and offered to contact my family for us. Those who offered and helped out after the storm, we deeply appreciate it. We pray that everybody continues to be safe and that everyone recovers quickly enough. When things settle down again, let's not forget and dismiss it as a fluke... make time to make new and better plans.


Friday, October 2, 2009

Stars and House Points for Green Gubrah



School started first week of September for BSM. Since then, we've all been too busy trying to keep up with whatever needs attention...including the blog. So, there'll be a flurry of posts in the next few days, hopefully, starting with this one. We're somewhat reaping the benefits of all that hard work...each and every one of us, including our big-little girl.

Fresh from summer break, on her first week of school, Vivian gets a star - certificate on the left is for her Good Manners token. Something about her graciously giving way to another. Last week, she excitedly showed her mum her double-house points for one of her school works (right). Great start baby!

Tuesday, September 22, 2009

Eid Break!


The holidays declared for Eid Al Fitr gave us almost a full week off. We planned that for most of that week, we'd just rest up in Muscat...but not before having a little bit of fun. We went back to Al Nahda, expectations high because we enjoyed our first visit so much.

The place was still great and we still enjoyed our stay a lot...but there were a few hiccups here and there. Had a small argument with the restaurant. The pool got too crowded during the late afternoons. The food was good but not as good as the last time. The pickup during checkout took more time than it should've (considering they kept reminding us to checkout otherwise we might get charged extra). Even thought the list seems long, the stay was still great overall. The little girl was just happy to be in the water with us and rode her bike whenever she could. Seeing the local version of the karitela (horse-drawn carriage) was a wonder for her - should probably try out the horse ride next visit. The wife spent time at the spa...and I got my massage (insert big smile here).

Lessons learned: don't go during Eid break or long holidays, they can't keep up with the volume of guests. Thursday dinner buffets (seafood) are the best... food the rest of the week is not as good. One day is too short, 2 days is too long.

Sunday, September 6, 2009

Heely's



Bought the pair for the little girl sometime April (same time we bought the Wii). Few weeks in she'd be scared and quite tentative, since we didn't have much room to practice around the apartment, it took her a lot of time to get rolling. Getting to practice only during the weekends or when we'd be around the malls or hitching herself up to a grocery cart... slowly got confidence and she finally got it. Great job, V!

Friday, September 4, 2009

Going coastal

Spoke too soon. I mistakenly entitled (and implied) the other blog entry as the last summer escapade. I was so wrong.

We'd visited this Shangri-La before, during our first year here, walked around just to see the place. We've longed since to actually try the place out...and so...(hit me).

Shangri-La is Shangri-La. Been to four so far and this Barr Al Jissah is the best we've ever tried. There are actually three different Shang hotels along the beachfront. We'd stayed in the Al Waha one which was on the far right of the strip, nestled and cupped by a mountain ridgeline behind it. The room and view was fantastic. The cove beachfront was wonderfully peaceful and serene. The staff was (more than just) helpful and attentive but never came close to being overly done. We were a bit wary of how it was like around the resort, it being Ramadan and all, but it was still very much relaxed. Drinking water was free albeit one had to be somewhat discreet. Pool bars were open for orders for food as well.

Downside to having three different hotels with various restaurant options was the travel between them. Looking forward to the seafood buffet at Al Tanoor (Al Bandar hotel side) , we decided to walk along the beachfront to the hotel on the far side only to find out it had been changed to an Iftar buffet for Ramadan. Still pining for seafood, we decided to go back to the Samba restaurant and asked the concierge to drive us back. Now driving to Al Waha, even while inside the resort, meant going thru this massive hole in the mountain with a traffic light - one way traffic at any time; I thought it amusing. Needless to say we gorged on Samba's oriental buffet.

The little girl was looking forward to some turtle viewing also but frowned in finding out that the turtle egg hatching season was over. Typically, hotel guests were prompted, even during wee hours of the morning if it came to, when the eggs would start hatching or when mother turtles would come to shore to lay their eggs. In-house Turtle Rangers make sure they are protected all year long. We even found some protected nests along the beachfront.

Upside was that she found one of her best friends from school running around the pool area with her siblings. The girls' eyes lit up when they found each other, gave each other a big big hug, and proceeded to forget their parents and play around as they wanted.

Time came to check-out and head back to the city. The girls' were comforted in knowing they'd see each other back in school soon. We definitely have to go back... if only for the turtles.


Tuesday, September 1, 2009

Late Blog: Two Front Teeth


In time for Christmas? Our girl lost another one again. The top couple are both with the tooth fairy.

This last one had been loose as a goose for weeks already but stubbornly hung on to the bone. She didn't want anyone to mess with it. So, as always, it came off during a meal. It was the fish fingers this time.